A New Years Resolution in October? I think yes! Every year I make a New Years Resolution and I try really, really hard to stick to it. Just to give you an idea, some of my resolutions in the past have been: to go back to school and finish my degree, stop drinking pop (or soda whatever you’d prefer to call it. I’m from Michigan, we say pop), start exercising regularly, start a blog, and start reading directions (because reading directions is one of the banes to my existence.)
So, this week I got to thinking about what my resolution will be for next year. Typically l start to come up with an idea a few months in advance, so once New Year Day comes around, I’m not scrambling to come up with something on the fly.
As ideas started coming to me, I couldn’t help but think~ Why do we wait until January to make these resolutions? Why not start now?!
I had never thought of it that way before. I’m sure by January 1st I will have come up with other ideas as well, but for now, these are the resolutions I am going to start today…or maybe tomorrow, because some of these are really hard.
5.) Limit writing posts on Facebook to once a week, and keep them benign. Also, sign onto Facebook once every few days, and nothing more than that.
Well, I have learned over the past few years through my tumultuous relationship with Facebook that no matter what you write, someone has an opinion, unless it’s something really harmless like, “Hooray! I’m getting married today!!” Then, what can someone say? There is no leeway for it to get personal. I vow to stop writing anything on Facebook that could be misconstrued in any way, shape, or form, today! No matter how meaningless I think what I’m writing is, if there is any part of me that has hesitation about it, then it doesn’t go up. Period.
Also, get off Facebook already! God, what is my problem? I am always saying how annoying Facebook is and blah, blah, blah, yet I continue to go on every day. Not anymore. I will not go on Facebook more that once every few days, as to avoid the Facebook burn out.
Wow, I feel better already! Don’t you?
4.) Quit being so hard on myself.
I am by far my toughest critic.
For example~ “Why did I get a B? I could have gotten an A.”
“If I don’t make the Deans List again this semester, than that means I suck at school.”
Or the one I am famous for lately…
“I’m getting a wrinkle on my forehead, why the h isn’t this wrinkle cream working?” <-Said with great despair.
Why would any normal human being think these things? I hear myself saying them, but it doesn’t register that they’re irrational. I mean, now that I’m writing it down I can see it, but why when I am in the moment do I not understand that? Whatever the reason, it’s clear I have to stop the destruction now.
3.) Stop cutting my hair.
You all remember what happened the last time I cut my hair, right? Somehow every time I do it, I seem to think the result is going to be different. Isn’t that the definition of insanity? However, the next time I go to reach for the scissors, I will get an imaginary slap on the wrist.
That’s it, no more cutting my own hair, and that means bangs, too, missy! You got that?
2.) Stop trying to map out the future.
I’ve noticed that I am always thinking ahead. I am always planning for a worst case scenario, or looking into the future for what it might hold. Most of the time this makes me feel like I am going bonkers. I vow to start taking a breather and just living in the moment more, instead of planning for what’s coming next.
Now for the last one, also known as the most important one…
1.) Start seeing the glass half full.
Well, this is going to be a tough one. In fact, I’m not entirely positive that I can actually stick with it. I know it sounds a bit cynical to admit to being a “glass half empty” person, but I don’t look at it that way. The way I see it, is that I am realistic. Matt is the dreamer, and I am the voice of reason usually. However, I admire his outlook on life. He is a very positive person, and he is not afraid of his dreams. He’s also not afraid of failing. How many people can really say that they’re not afraid of failing? Yeah, Matt’s pretty awesome. That’s why I married him.
Anyway, I heard a Steve Jobs quote right after he passed away, and to me, it pretty much summed up Matt. The quote was, “Stay hungry, stay foolish.” I’ve decided I want to be more like that, foolish, because although being realistic can protect you from disappointment, it doesn’t enable you to take the kinds of risks that pay off big time.
So, what are some of your New Year’s Resolutions?